小学四年级上,宽容他人作文素材300 .400字
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第一次宽容他人 作文
在我成长过程中的第一次如天上的繁星一般,但有一颗星星却格外的亮,那是我第一次宽容他人。
记得那一天,下了第三节课后,一个同学从我身边走过时,一不小心把我的钢笔碰掉了,并摔坏了笔头。要知道,那是我去年过生日时,爸爸送给我的生日礼物,看着摔坏的钢笔我立马大发雷霆:“你怎么这么不小心,你没长眼睛吗?快给我捡起来。”我边说边拍桌子。这位同学可能是被我歇斯底里的吼叫吓住了,连忙把钢笔捡起,可就在她慌慌忙忙捡起来时,钢笔又一次掉到了地上,此时我火冒三丈,认为她是故意的,我已经暴跳如雷了,手恨不得伸过去打她两下也不解气。她当时头没敢抬起,眼睛里似乎有了泪水,双手捧着我那支心爱的笔,并低声细语地对我说:“对不起,我不是故意的。”此时旁边已围观了很多同学,我为了不失风度,只好气愤地说:“你明天赔我一支和这一模一样的钢笔。”回到家,我把今天的事情告诉了妈妈,妈妈听了以后脸色变得沉重起来,脸上的表情是那么严肃。过了一会,妈妈语重心长的对我说:“你怎么能这样呢?我不是常给你说,同学之间要和睦相处,要团结友爱,要宽容他人吗。”“可是,可是妈妈……”“好了冰儿,你不要再说了,这件事虽然那位同学错了,但你这么做就对的吗?那位同学只不过是不小心把你的钢笔摔坏了,而你呢,你却对人家大吼大叫的,这可不是妈妈希望看到的,做人要学会宽容,大度,而不是去斤斤计较。”听了妈妈的话,我似乎明白了什么。
第二天,那位同学真的把一支新钢笔拿来了,我看着新钢笔,不好意思地说:“不用了,钢笔虽然坏了,可我还有另外一只呢。昨天是我不对,我不该对你大吼大叫的。”那位同学大吃一惊,半天站着不动,我看她站着不动,微笑着说:“快收起来吧!一会下课了,我们一起踢毽子去。”她听了,开心地说:“好吧,我们永远是好朋友。”
是啊,宽容是一种美德,宽容他人,也使自己的心情变得很愉快。
指导教师:赵芙蓉
需宽容他人的作文【宽容他人作文400字】
An abiding dilemma for Humanists who are in the “ecumenical” position of working closely with people of all faiths,is how patient and understanding we need to be in our relationships with the rest of the world.There is the especially perplexing dilemma of how tolerant to be of other’s intolerance.An old and reliable admonition that flashes in my head like neon,simply states:Do not alienate those whom you might persuade!
Those of us who are working toward a goal with other dedicated activists,are often in the position of censoring our own comments so as not to blow away our colleagues.We understand so very well that the only way that this old world is ever going to improve at all,is through cooperation and respect among those of all beliefs,cultures,and traditions,so simply out of respect for these differences,we may find ourselves limiting our own exercise of free speech.I say to myself:Try not to criticize!Be constructive!You know,the old…don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater routine.Do the Mommy-thing:encourage others to become aware and involved in the project or activity at hand.This is all well and good for the shared goal…up to a point!
But what can we say or do about those practices and beliefs that are completely beyond comprehension?How long to ignore or look away,or bite your tongue,and wish that you didn’t have to know or feel this shame or anger.How can we contain our anger at those who refuse to acknowledge and respond to whatever “emergency” we may be dealing with.I picture some of us bailing frantically in our sinking ship,while some of our fellow passengers are outright denying that the water’s even rising,and treat our concern with contempt,while still others feel there’s no need for them to worry because god will save them.Yet we can’t simply write-off those whose beliefs clearly endanger us; we share our sinking lifeboat with them!Not only will they not bail,some are even shooting more holes in the boat!
No wonder we get frantic and impatient!They’ve got to come to their senses!How can we get them to come around to the logic of our way of thinking?How can we get them to recognize the real danger that we’re in,instead of their mistaken constructs of how to deal with world problems?How can we persuade the powerful to relinquish a portion of their power?How can we intervene to stop the inhumane militarized mentality that prevails on this Earth?How to stop bullying,hatred,murder,torture,ignorance,greed?Then how to stop fear and hunger and homelessness?
Our expectations that those in power will recognize their errors and set about correcting the horrible mistakes that they’ve set in motion are continually dashed in disappointment.What a shock it can be to learn that those whose opinions you might once have valued,no longer meet your standards or your expectations.You can shrug off the stupidity of a stranger,but what an extra shock when a member of the clan or the club fails you.That really angers you; how could they be so stupid?Perhaps it’s human nature for us to expect those closest to us to think and behave “normally” as we do; they,of all people in the whole world,should know better!
The Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the several Humanist Manifestos say it all!What more is there to ask than respect for all human beings and life on Earth?So then we’re back to the issue of needing to respect our differences:a principle which is essential to our own integrity and our own code of ethics.
We feel the urgency for making changes,but this heavy responsibility is indeed fraught with complex dilemmas.When shall we be courageous and uncompromising?When shall we be patient and conciliatory?Speak-up!Shut-up!The ideals of freedom of speech and democratic participation are precious and need to be fostered and protected,but unless they get a lot of exercise,they’re going to get flabby.We will no longer be able to protect these freedoms.
Those of you who recognize this syndrome of self-censorship may remember that in your first declarations of independent thinking you drew negative responses,even shock or derision from more traditional relatives or co-workers.You gathered courage over a period of time to begin to articulate the logic of your point of view more persuasively,and perhaps learned that some even agreed with you in your Humanistic values.And what a joy it is to connect with like-minded truth-seekers!To find others who reject the so-called authority that is thrust upon us,and who acknowledge that the universe is indifferent to us and that it is up to us humans,ourselves,to create our own purpose and our own peace!
In the arrogance of my youth,I had pasted onto my old typewriter these marching orders:Words that might help to create Peace on Earth are trapped inside this machine!Get them out!
宽容的我作文400字开头和结尾
和谐之美在于宽容.拥有宽容才会有和谐.因为宽容是人类情感的种子,她能在人类心灵这片土上扎根发芽,在爱的呵护下茁壮成长,宽容之心是伟大的,她能浇熄怒火化解愁恨,她可以感化邪恶、播散善良,她能无私奉献,从不计较得失,她能化悲痛为力量解千愁为云烟,她可以与快乐毫无掩饰,她可与幸福同行畅游天地间,她可以让人间充满真情,让我们享受阳光般的温暖,雨露般的滋润------宽容之和谐,妙不可言.
那是一次伤心绝望的历程,因为不知是否出自于文老师之口,但我听后仍旧伤心难过,因为那几句话,让我和我最好的朋友------阿婷,变成了年段同学关系最差的.那盘西红柿炒鸡蛋,那是我一辈子也忘记不了的味道;我们想破了脑袋才排成的舞蹈、吃的满脸都是冰淇淋的蛋糕,一次次的排练演出,我绝对不会忘记.明明看见了对方却要形同陌路,连打个招呼也变的如此不自然,我不在乎所有的人说什么,所以我可以用宽容之心化解愁恨,浇熄怒火,让我们的友谊永恒.每次每次,听到你因为我不理你而郁闷,我害怕极了,请你也同我一样,用一颗宽容之心化解愁恨,浇熄怒火,让世间的一切更加美好,让大家的一切海阔天空.
朋友,愿你播下宽容的种子,送上一杯清心之水带上友善之心,伴上平凡的生活,躺在清风送爽的大草原上,仰望那无边无际的蔚蓝屏障,聆听那动人心弦的草原民谣,它会让你置身于另一个世界------充满和谐之美的人间天堂.
宽容他人快乐自己 作文【宽容他人作文400字】
宽容是品德中的一种,宽容可以让世界从黑暗中变得明亮,宽容可以让冰雪化成水,让世界变得美好。
在一个星期三的上午,我们进行了一场考试,可我的同桌却没有带文具盒。只能和我借支笔,我借了他一支我的姑姑送我的笔,那只笔是我有一次考第一名姑姑送我的,特意从石家庄给我买的智高转转笔,可我的同桌却在考试之后把我的笔弄丢了,他告诉我之后,我非常生气,就说和他绝交,回家了,我仔细的想了一下,弄丢的只是笔,可我们的友谊是不可代替的,于是在第二天我说没关系了,一支笔换不了咱们的友谊。她激动地流下了眼泪,而我心里也有一丝喜悦。
那次我在回家的路上,看到一个小伙子,汽车骑得飞快把对面骑车的老奶奶撞到了,当有人把老奶奶送到医院时,那个小伙子在老人的床下跪了一天一夜,当老奶奶醒时,那个小伙子对老奶奶道歉,而老奶奶说没关系,说,小伙子你没事吧。当时,那个小伙子哭了,这应该就是宽容的力量吧。
宽容就好比天上的太阳,为人们每天的工作,送给人们温暖。宽容是一种可贵的品质,它能让你感到一种温馨的感觉,当你宽容他人时,他不仅会感到感激,你也会感到喜悦,这就是“宽容他人,快乐自己”。
宽容他人就是善待自己 作文
野花被路人忽略,但它依然芳香;花朵凋零,但它依然甘做落红;昙花短暂,但它依然惊艳;海棠深夜未眠,但它依然让人感动。是什么让它们有了让人赞美的资格?是宽容,因为它们宽容了世人对它们的不理不睬,依然如故,于是就有了华美诗篇对它们的赞赏。
佛陀之所以有超凡的境界,即是因为他们可以与世无争,宽待他人,这就是佛陀的高明之处。和一个一路都在谩骂你的人一起行走,也许你会心中厌恶,也许会采取同样的方式与他对抗,可是佛陀只是对那个人讲:“假如有人送你东西,而你拒绝,那么这个礼物属于谁呢?”答案很简单当然属于那个送礼的人。而佛陀也只是在告诉他,只要我不理睬你的谩骂,就等于那个被拒绝的礼物。
佛陀宽容了别人的侮辱,也维护了自己的尊严,这也许就是佛陀的何处惹尘埃吧!
野花被踩在了脚下,但却把香味留在了它的鞋下,这亦是宽容。宽容了他人,怎可以说不是一中美德?善待了自己,怎可以说不是一中收获?
无独有偶,古哲学家苏格拉底,在路上碰到讨厌自己的人,那人对他说:“我从来不给愚蠢的人让路。”而苏格拉底却平静地说道:“而我恰恰相反。”说着偏过身子让那个人过去。苏格拉底用宽容的心扞卫了自己的人格与自尊,他没有用更加具有讽刺的的话去回击那人,而是大度地说道而我正好相反。
宽容是种品德,更是一种魅力。而宽容也并不是去一度的忍让,而是不仅原谅了他人的错误,而且还维护了自身的利益,这才是真正的宽容。是的,宽容他人就是善待自己。
因为蔺相如宽容了廉颇的无礼,才换来了国家的太平与昌盛,更换来了人们对他的钦佩,人们在他的身上看到了“宰相肚里能撑船”的气度,于是乎,他的事迹,千古传载。任何人都可以成为佛陀,成为苏格拉底,成为蔺相如,因为我们都可以学会宽待他人,为何要对别人的错误深深怨恨,本可以轻而处之,为何不让自己,他人都活的轻松自在?宽容是最高尚的灵魂,也是人最美好的品质。
不论是谁,都请铭记:宽容他人就是善待自己……
人与人和谐相处作文400字左右
后退两步,和谐相处
课间活动时,为了一件小事,我和同学争得不可开交,闹得很不愉快.
回到家里,我还在生她的气.吃过晚饭,我打开电子邮箱,看到她发来的一封电子邮件.我轻轻点击一下附件,屏幕上立即出现一堆乱码,上面还有一些大红的色彩.
同学在电脑操作上很有造诣,竟然发病毒来报复我.
我当即拿起电话,准备痛骂她一顿.就在这时,我发现,屏幕右下角跳出一行字:“请你后退两步,再看看这封邮件.”
我终于明白同学的良苦用心.看到这里,想起白天的争吵,我觉得不完全是她的错.我当即发了一封邮件,表示我的歉意.
后退两步,我才能看清同学的邮件,也让我悟出一个道理:当我们生气的时候,不要急着应战,不如后退两步,可以让我们的视野更加开阔,审时度势,作出正确的判断.因为你“后退两步”,许多原来要激化的矛盾,可能会得到化解.
人非圣贤,孰能无过,谁能说自己这一辈子将不会经受一丁点儿挫折与磨难呢?当我们正遭受错误和过失折磨的时候,我们最需要的不也是来自周边许多人的理解和宽容吗?既然谁都有犯错的时候,我们就应该学会宽容他人的错误,只有懂得善待别人的人,才能懂得善待自己;只有忘记怨恨,才能宽宏大量、与人和睦相处;只有拥有宽广的胸怀,才能为自己营造起一片安宁愉悦的和谐“绿洲”.
关于宽容他人使自己成功湖作文
宽容是一种美德,宽容是一种修养,宽容是一门学问,宽容是人与人之间和平相处的一座桥梁……
记得那是我上二年级的时候有一天下午下课,张天童让我接他格尺,因为他格尺忘带了,我借给他后,令人意想不到的事情发生了:我刚借给他,他就把格尺掰坏了.当他把事情告诉我时,我气急了,真想好好揍他一顿,正好打起上课铃了,我把我心头的怒火压制下来.然后,这节课下课之后,我把这件事告诉了老师,在上课的时候,老师告诉张天童明天赔我格尺.放学之后,张天童跟我说:“孙浩然,真对不起,把你的格尺掰坏了,明天我赔你一个新的格尺.”我说:“对不起有什么用?这是我妈妈花五块钱给我买的格尺,你为什么要给我掰坏?”说完我就走了,回家之后,妈妈看我受气的样子,便问我怎么了,我把事情的一五一十说了出来,妈妈说:“儿子,要学会宽容别人.”第二天,张天童问我:“我买不到像你那样的格尺你能告诉我在哪买的吗?”我说:“你不用赔了.”他听到这句话后,连忙说:”我连忙说:“不用谢.”就因此,我们俩成为了好朋友.
通过这件事,我学会了什么叫宽容.